Thursday, August 23, 2012

Parashat Shoftim

Parashat Shoftim
Elul 7, 5772 ~ Aug 125, 2012
by Neska


Hashem
The Soul You Breathed into me is pure.
You Breathed It into me as I was born
You Breathed It into me and I took my first breath
So how can we be separated.
We cannot.
I was so Pure from Your Breath.
So Pure.
And then I grew.  And I made choices -
and more choices
most of them negative
and I was spiralling down....
And then
You saved my life.
You caused me to stop   and look
And one day I heard a Rabbi say
“Judges and Police shall you put at your gates”
Not the city's gates....but your gates.
My gates.  My openings.
And slowly I began to
stop and look and listen and speak
very differently.
I began to notice that when I wanted to say something
the Judges would say 'do you really?' 
And the Police would say 'take action – now.'
Or if I was listening to something unsavory
the Judges would say 'do you really want to listen?' 
And the Police would say 'leave'.
And I understood that there have to be both Judges and Police
at the gateways, at my gateways
because knowing is not enough
Without acting – knowing is not enough
And that's what the Torah teaches me
One has potential and one has actualization.
Adam and Chava.
Justice Justice – you shall pursue.
Just knowing that Justice is what I should pursue
allows me da'at—allows me to know
but without the action
it just sits there.
And of what good is that.             

This is what the Torah teaches.
Knowledge is good.
Action is good.
One without the other is pure potential.
One without the other is insufficient.
We will do  and we will understand.

Judges and Police shall you place at your gates.

Shabbat Shalom.

Thursday, August 9, 2012

Parashat Eikev

Parashat Eikev
Av 23, 5772 ~ Aug 11, 2012
by Susan Somerville


Parshat Eikev "follows on the heels" of V'Etchanan, the parashah most intimately connected with G-dliness via both the declaration of the Shema and the first verse of the V'Ahavtah, and also, the reiteration of the Ten Utterances (the Ten Commandments). Midrashically speaking, when we heard the Bat Kol (Voice of HaShem) at Har Sinai, "we were blown away." as in fainting. (Well, that happened after the first two Commandments. Yet, we regained our senses shortly afterwards, thank G-d!) Besides the very first of the Ten Utterances, I would think that it would have been easiest to have remembered the declaratory Shema. But there are people in Israel who do not even know what The Shema - or the utterances for that matter - are.

A reliable friend told me about a survey that was taken in Israel amongst the secular Jews: They were asked to recite the opening declaration of The Shema. Almost 60% of those people surveyed could not do so and/or did not know what The Shema was. My friend found this result so astounding that he conducted his own mini-survey in Berkeley. He questioned a former kibbutznik who said that he never learned about The Shema. My friend also queried two different Israeli women who were his family's guests at two different occasions. One woman knew the first two words, and the other woman said that she had heard The Shema when she was young but that she had forgotten it. Her parents, who were also guests at that meal, remembered The Shema from their youth. However, they could not agree on the order of "HaShem" and "Kelokainu." If this is the situation with Israeli Jews, just imagination how much more problematic the situation is in the US, where the numbers of assimilated Jews keeps increasing! 

What a sad commentary! How can any of us live a day without proclaiming the absolute Oneness of HaShem? Our Neshamas require that we connect to Him and to every other Jew. For me, there is such power in this profound commandment, that I am left with an emptiness if I miss the opportunity - even once in awhile.

I think that we are a tremendously privileged people to have G-dliness bestowed upon us as a daily gift. Through the Shema, HaShem hears our voices and we "hear each other's voices," though not in the ordinary use of the word, to hear. For though we write these words on our hearts, (Which words? All of the words of the Shema, including the three verses of the V'Ahavtah.) they actually enter our hearts with repetition, helping us to become better Jews and a better people. Rashi said that they have a "freshness" when said each day. They give us understanding, and their essence takes on a fresh meaning, making them "beloved" to us. They have a uniting force through the proclamation of Oneness. On top of this, we are reminded to scrupulously observe HaShem's laws and decrees, which also bind us to Him and to each other.

One thing that I find fascinating is the requirement "V'Ahavtah..." (...to Love your G-d...). The question is always asked: "How can G-d command us to love Him?" I think there is an answer to this question. Loving Him is a binding force. It promotes our cleaving to Him, which is what He desires from us; and it promotes the longevity of Klal Yisrael (all Israel). Think about the fact that we are the oldest civilization/people on earth. All other civilizations have folded; except, the Chinese people, who are also ancient, but not as old as we are. (According to Wikipedia, they are celebrating their 4,710th year at the most, depending on the epoch that they are using. We can trace history back 5,772 years.) We are commanded to be at the highest level on the spectrum of positive outlook and practice. Furthermore, Rashi points out that we are to serve HaShem with all of our heart, which is prayer. To me, it's an amazing Torah blueprint for life. But it is only possible if we "hearken" to HaShem's commandments; and this conditional aspect of how we are to conduct ourselves and the benefits that are reaped as a result of this supreme conduct are emphasized in the second verse of the V'Ahavtah. Interestingly, though, in the third verse, which is not in Parashat Eikev, we are admonished not to chase after our eyes and our hearts. (This topic would make for a fascinating few shiurrim, (classes) as some other time.)

In concluding this mini D'var Torah, I want to add that there is another aspect to the power of The Shema. "V'Shinantem L'Vanaicha..." How many of you remember your parents at your bedside when you were young, telling you that because "G-d is One," we have "to say Shema Israel before going to sleep?" Now, you are doing that for your children, and some of us sit by our grandchildren, following in the same tradition. It stuck with us! To reiterate, we are privileged!

Thursday, August 2, 2012

Parashat Va'etchanan


Parashat Va’etchanan
Av 16, 5772 ~ Aug 4, 2012
by Michal Kohane

On December 16, 1932 a fire erupted at the Shirokiya (or Shirakiya) Department Store in Tokyo, Japan. It left 14 people dead and 67 injured. At the time, the store was having a year-end Christmas theme sale, and the interior was extravagantly decorated. A clerk in the toy section witnessed an electrical spark from a light bulb on a Christmas tree. The spark landed on some highly flammable celluloid toys, ignited them, and quickly spread. The open staircase enabled the fire to spread through the staircase to other floors. Some of the saleswomen were forced to go up to the roof; from there they jumped into safety nets held by firemen. Many attempted to escape the building using ropes made from clothing or curtains. About 80 people climbed down from the 7th floor in this manner. Others could not hang on and fell to their deaths.

It is believed that this fire changed fashion customs among Japanese women since kimono-clad women did not wear panties. News spread that during the fire, saleswomen in kimono refused to jump from the roof into safety nets because they were ashamed to be seen from below, and as a result died. It has been alleged that in the aftermath of the fire, department store management ordered saleswomen to wear panties or other short underwear under their kimono, and the trend spread.

Contrary to this belief, Shoichi Inoue, a professor of Japanese customs and architecture at the International Research Center for Japanese Studies found that most people were saved by firemen, and the story of women who preferred to die with their modesty intact was fabricated for the benefit of Westerners. It is what we otherwise call an “urban legend”.

In Parashat Va’etchanan, the Torah warns us lest we come to think of our experience at Sinai as an “urban legend”. Knowing some day we might be tempted or challenged to do so, the text gives us tools how to remind ourselves and others of the validity and criticalness of the Sinai experience. I could copy all of this parasha and especially Deuteronomy chapter 4. Here are only a few gems:

27-29: “And Hashem shall scatter you among the peoples, and you shall be left few in number among the nations, where Hashem lead you away. And there you shall serve gods, the work of men's hands, wood and stone, which neither see, nor hear, nor eat, nor smell. But from there you will seek Hashem your God; and you shall find Him…”

Who is this that can prophesy so accurately into the future, and guarantee not only ours but G-d’s behavior? The text continues: 

32-35: “For if you ask…. whether there has ever been any such thing… Did ever a people hear the voice of God speaking out of the midst of the fire, as you have heard, and live? Or has God ever come to take for Himself a nation from the midst of another nation, by trials, by signs, and by wonders… according to all that Hashem your God did for you in Egypt before your eyes? To you it’s been shown so that you know that Hashem, He is God; there is none else beside Him…” 

Moses, in this last dramatic speech said during the month before his death, is talking to the generation that did not stand at Sinai as adults. He wants to instill a paramount core concept: 

The Jewish People are not an organic creation of time and place. Rather, their birth is a creation of G-d, and just like the first creation of the universe, it is a creation of yesh me’ayin, Ex-nihilo – “out of nothing” so is this People. Each member might not have the same language, specific history, ethnicity or culture as the next one, but they continue to be one extended family with a unique mission. Indeed, it is natural that one nation or another will have great influence on the world but it’s highly unlikely that this nation will be tiny, scattered and persecuted. Yet, this is what is promised here. The Jewish history and life never bends according to the customary laws of nature. 

Why? Over and over we ask this question. Why? Why the Jews? Why us? Why like this?

The text continues:

37-40: “…Because He loved your fathers and chose their offspring after them, and brought you out with His presence, with His great power, out of Egypt… to give you their land for an inheritance, as it is this day… And you shall keep His statutes, and His commandments… that it may go well with you, and with your children after you…”

What is the reason? Not our great qualities, wisdom, strength, beauty or talent. But love. Why does anyone love any person over another?? We can reason all we want, but at the end of the day, there is no explanation. As if to say, there is an irrational element in this journey that cannot be fully figured out no matter what. Even here is G-d’s fingerprint: It’s just so. And no matter how long we explore, question and wonder, at some point it’s just “so”. 

What’s left for us to do? Just keep “his statutes and His commandments… that it may go well”. The Hebrew says, “asher yitav lecha”, from the word “tov” meaning good. “Good” in the Torah usually does not mean a kind, considerate loving being, but one who fulfills who s/he is. Think of how we say, ‘this is a good table’. We surely don’t mean that this table is embodied with acts of loving kindness. We mean that it does what it supposed to do in the best possible manner. Likewise for us: following G-d’s mitzvot provides us with an opportunity to be better versions of who we are, while reminding those around us that our story is not a legend.

Shabbat Shalom.

Thursday, July 26, 2012

Parashat Devarim

Parashat Devarim
Av 9, 5772 ~ July 28, 2012
by Yosef & Benyamin Helwani


Our parasha this week begin with the words “ele hadevarim” – “and these are the words” that Moshe spoke to the people of Israel.  However, the actual meaning of the word “devarim” should be “objects” or “things” and not words. Moshe was about to rebuke the B’nai Israel, but he realized that to rebuke a nation is not that simple.  Therefore, he looked at how leaders among the tribes behaved and rebuked him and how they were punished, like Korach, the son of Kehat and Zimri ben Salu, one of the chief leaders of the tribe of Shimon.

Moshe realized that he needed to ask the B’nai Israel for forgiveness before he could admonish them, so he speaks to them in a soft and gentle manner, reminding them of their travels, and as he speaks to them he reminds them of the sins that they committed.  A question came to my mind.   Is Moshe rebuking the people out of frustration because he was not allowed to enter the land, or to let them know that he will not be able to speak on their behalf when they anger Hashem once they enter the land of Canaan?

 The rabbis tell us that Moshe was a loyal shepherd and watched over the people just as a shepherd, who is responsible for his flock, watches over them so that no harm shall come to them. In the book of Shemot when the Erev Rav committed the sin of the golden calf, Hashem says to Moshe: “Go down because the nation that you took out of Mitzrayim sinned”. How is it possible that all of a sudden it’s Moshe’s people and not Hashem’s?  Because Hashem knew that Moshe cared for every single Jew just as if he or she were his own child.   No father wants his child to stray away, so he talks to them in a gentle and soft manner and tells them that when they are punished it is out of love and not out of anger.

 Anger sometime takes the best out of us. A story is told of the great Hasidic rebbe the Holy Jew of Peshiskha who invited his prized student rabbi Simcha Bunim to a meal.   As they sat at the table the rebbe’s wife started to talk loudly to her husband and then yelled at him.  The rebbe just sat there, not even saying a word. A few minutes later he got up, walked into the kitchen, yelled at his wife and then went back to the dining room to continue his meal with his student.   A few minutes went by.  The rebbe looked at his student and said:  “I know you are trying to figure out what just happened. My wife got angry at me because I have a great responsibility to my people, and sometime she feels that I neglect her.  When she yelled at me I held myself from getting angry but I later realized how sad she was when I did not answer her.  So I went back into the kitchen and yelled at her to let her know that I still love and care for her.”

In Proverbs 15:13 King Solomon said: “An ear that listens to the admonishment will be blessed among the sages”.  The one who accepts admonishment deserves to be called wise.

We live in times that we forget that one day we need to give an accounting for our sins on the Day of Judgment.  We are told that one of the first questions a person is asked on that day is whether he dealt honestly with people around him.  The fast of Tisha b’Av is a punishment for baseless hatred amongst the Jews. We should learn and be cautious about how to behave with each other.  It is very easy to criticize the people who brought this fast day upon us.  Instead, we should learn what to do and what not to do.  Just because Hashem loves and forgives does not give us a free pass. That just because Hashem forgives us, we cannot take things for granted.

Ahavat Israel is the way to bring Mashiah speedily in our days.


          Shabbat Shalom

Thursday, July 12, 2012

Parashat Pinchas


Parashat Pinchas
Tammuz 24, 5772 ~ July 14, 2012
by Dan Cohen

Parsha Pinchas: Riffing on Chessed and Gevurah – Kindness & Strength 

What does it mean to balance kindness and strength?   
  
Let’s look at the facts from this week’s parsha (with a helpful dose of last week’s) courtesy of Chabad.org.

1.    Last week's reading concluded with Moabite and Midianite women seducing Jewish men and enticing them to idol worship. 

2.    At that point, Phinehas (Pinchas – Aaron’s grandson) unilaterally executed a Jewish leader along with the Midianite princess with whom he was cohabiting. 

3.    This week's reading opens with G‑d praising Phinehas, and rewarding his bravery by granting priesthood to him and his descendants.

Commentary at the same site continues saying that many Jews, particularly from the tribe of Shimon, were enticed by the Midianite women who descended upon the Israelite camp in the Shittim valley, and were even induced to serve Baal Peor, the pagan god of their consorts. 

When tribunals were set up by Moses to try and punish the idolaters, Zimri, the leader of Shimon, sought to legitimize his tribe's sins by publicly taking a Midianite woman into his tent, before the eyes of Moses and the eyes of the entire community of Israel.
The Prince’s repudiation reminded me of the moment in the Monty Python movie where the hapless guard says “Stop…or I shall yell stop again….”
When the tribunals failed, Pinchas took unilateral action against the leader and killed him and his woman.  But who told him to do it?  Was he authorized?  Is he a zealot or a murderer?

In most of the drashot I saw, Pinchas is the hero.  But what makes him a hero?  Who decides what is zealotry, and what is murder? I liked this explanation posted at meaningfullife.com.

“The true zealot is an utterly selfless individual -- one who is concerned only about the relationship between G-d and His people, with no thought for his own feelings on the matter. The moment his personal prejudices and inclinations are involved, he ceases to be a zealot.”

Pinchas took a very unpopular action but he did so for the highest calling.  He killed a Prince.  He killed a prince who was flouting the law and G-d.  The prince did so with the support of many in his tribe (among others).  Pinchas killed a prince that mocked communal law and Moshe.
So what do we do with this?  How do we make sense of this?
Scholar Adina Roth writing for the American Jewish World Service weekly drash presented this idea. 

“In Jewish mystical thought, there are said to be two polar expressions of G-d’s relationship to the world: chessed—loving-kindness, and gevurah—strength and boundaries. When we emulate G-d’s quality of chessed, we forge open relationships and give of ourselves. In contrast, when we emulate gevurah, we set boundaries, turn away from the influence of others and strengthen our convictions. While many of us see loving-kindness as the optimal trait in social justice work, Parashat Pinchas can teach us a crucial lesson about the importance of setting boundaries in effecting social change.” 

It seems like in of our daily struggles, maybe there is some guidance in asking what are the expectations and boundaries at play?  But it may also make sense to ask what acts of kindness might be open to us if we take them?

I just learned of a story of an IDF general, a secular guy, who oversaw all 71 checkpoints in Judea and Samaria.  I was told that he’d never studied Torah but recently participated in a special program to expose secular Israelis, especially society’s leadership, to Torah study in a non-judgmental way called Kolot.  While the study program is remarkable, what is even more remarkable was what the General did after. 

Not long after participating in the program, he installed water coolers at all checkpoints to offer a cold drink to those waiting in the hot sun.  His idea being that his soldiers should have a rifle in one hand (Gevurah), but kindness (Chessed) in the other.  What an amazing message to send about strength, generosity and responsibility.

G-d’s laws bind us together as a people and humanity.  Moshe knew that and ordered a public tribunal of the wayward Prince – a kinder approach to things.  Pinchas knew that and took unilateral action – perhaps enforcing the outer boundaries of the law. Maybe the guidance from this week is that all Hashem is asking of us is to balance kindness and strength when we relate to each other.

Thursday, June 28, 2012


Parashat Chukat
Tammuz 10, 5772 ~ June 30, 2012
by Joel Ackerman


In the middle of this parasha, we fast forward 38 years from the events surrounding the death of Korach and his followers in the previous parasha.   The Torah is silent about this time. No information is given here on any events that occurred during this period.  Instead, we pick up the story in the 40th year in the desert with the deaths of Miriam and Aaron and, finally, the movement of the Israelites towards the Land.  One wonders what this lengthy period was like.

After the incident of the spies, Moses had told the people that G-d had decided that they would not enter the Land until all those aged twenty and above had died (Bamidbar 14:28-35).  G-d did not mince words:  “Your children will roam in the wilderness for forty years and bear your guilt, until the last of your carcasses in the wilderness.  Like the number of days that you spied out the Land, forty days, a day for a year, a day for a year, shall you bear your iniquities – forty years – and you shall comprehend straying from Me.”

Sholem Asch describes the mood among the people at the beginning of that period in his novel “Moses”:  “They went about with bowed heads, shrouded in sadness.  Until now they had had, in the midst of all their tribulations, an aim and purpose… But now what prospect was there?  For themselves, only death; and for their children, freedom.  Very rare were the spirits among them who could rise to this challenge: to live out all their remaining lives in privation and suffering for the sake of their children.”

And Asch describes Moses’ own state:  “What would be his own fate?  Was he not one of the grown persons who had come out of Egypt?  Was he not himself of the first generation?  The thought made him tremble. He could not entrust the B’nai Israel into other hands.  He must see them into their land.  G-d would be merciful to him and let him live long enough to complete G-d’s work.  And perhaps G-d would relent and shorten the sentence of forty years, hasten the growth of the B’nai Israel, prepare them sooner for the conquest.  He would not cease to pray. 

He would exert himself to keep the B’nai Israel close to the borders of the Promised Land.   He would not force them back into the horrible desert.   He would wander with the tribes between Ezion-Geber and Kadesh Barnea, push his way through to the borders of the Promised Land.”

As we know, G-d did not shorten the sentence, but He was merciful – to a certain extent - for those thirty-eight years.  He did not desert His people.

G-d had told Moses after the incident of the spies: “Tomorrow, turn and journey toward the wilderness, in the direction of the Sea of Reeds” (Bamidbar, 14: 25).  But Moses fudged, and G-d did not call him on it.  Again, Sholem Asch.  Moses prayed for the people and “God vouchsafed to Moses the light of his justice.  And Moses said in his heart that he would not compel the B’nai Israel to leave Kadesh Barnea; he would not compel them to break up camp. Nor, indeed did the cloud above the sanctuary rise in sign of departure.  And even though G-d had bidden Moses to turn back into the wilderness on the morrow, Moses interpreted the word ‘morrow’ to mean ‘after a time.’” He interpreted “in the direction of the Sea of Reeds” to mean “any part of the Red Sea”, and kept close to that arm of this body of water that extended  to Ezion-Geber (i.e., modern Eilat) rather than return to that part near Egypt.

And G-d accompanied his people and found ways to be merciful to them so that they should not become totally overwhelmed with despair.  Rashi comments on the list of places in the journey of the Israelites in parashat Masei (Bamidbar 33:1-49): “Why were these journeys written?  To make known the acts of kindness of the Omnipresent.  For although He decreed upon them to move them about and make them wander in the wilderness, you should not say that they were wandering about from journey to journey the entire forty years and had no rest…. During the entire last thirty-eight years they only journeyed twenty journeys.”

The Torah further states (Devarim 28:4) that neither their clothes nor their shoes wore out.  And in this week’s parasha, our translation of the Torah reports that when the people complained about lack of food and water, G-d sent fiery snakes and serpents that bit them, and many died.  However, Nehama Leibowitz teaches that this translation is incorrect; that the word “vayeshalach” does not mean “sent” but rather “let go”, “released”.  In other words, what occurred here was not that G-d took an action and sent snakes against the people, but that the snakes had always been present and threatening to attack, but G-d had restrained them up to then – but then He stopped restraining them – temporarily, perhaps - to remind the Israelites  that all that time He had been protecting them.
         
And so it went for thirty-eight years.  The older generation lived with the fact that they would die in the wilderness, and so they did, bit by bit.  Their children had to watch this, constantly aware of both the death sentence passed on their parents and the fact that they themselves could not progress until that sentence had been fully carried out.   

And it was not just parents and children.  There was no generation gap.  Those young men 20 or 21 years old were under that death sentence, but those only slightly younger - 18 or 19 - were not.  They waited, conscious of their close call, and they matured under G-d’s protection to become the elders and leaders of the next generation.  

It was a strange and tense time, yet somehow the people worked their way through this, somehow survived it.  Somehow Moses kept at his self-assigned task of leading them and preparing them for that next step.  And as we learn in this parasha, when the time came, they were ready to move.

Shabbat Shalom